Tips and tricks you've found as a LL
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|Sun, 03-28-2010 - 12:56am|
Hi guys, I am new to these boards and need some advice. I am LL and obviously this is taking a toll on my relationship. I am only 22, my SO is 24. We're young, I thought I was too young for something like this to happen. Even just 2 years ago, I was an all out HL, practically a nympho.
I'm still attracted to my BF, but just can't get there physically anymore. If, in the off-chance, I want it in my head, my body can't catch up. I can't get lubricated and then it hurts, and then I don't want it for a really long time, so it's just a bad cycle. My love is pretty understanding for the most part, but obviously he gets frustrated sometimes and feels rejected. Worst of all, I loved being as HL as I was. *I* don't like feeling like this.
What are somethings that you've found that helps you get in the mood, even if it's just a little? Best advice?