A touch jealous

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Registered: 05-31-2010
A touch jealous
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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 2:11pm

I find myself a touch jealous of all the HLs.

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Sun, 07-25-2010 - 11:01am
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Registered: 12-10-2009
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 12:34pm
And it's rare to be self-aware and honest enough to admit that.
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Sat, 07-24-2010 - 11:37am

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This certainly applies to me, as I've stated on several occasions. If doing X brings up feeling of inadequacy, it's human nature to seek to avoid X.

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 5:24am

This must be very hard, and a kind of feeling that your body & mind

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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 4:01pm
Yeah. I do know. I am working on it, and have given up on "fixing" me because I'm not broken. This is how I am, here in this moment. DH loves me. I love DH. It isn't perfect, but then what really is in this universe?
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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 3:48pm

Tiptoeing,

I want you to know I understand what you are feeling. When my libido left I was completely and utterly despondent about it for a while. I mourned what I had lost. I looked around and thought "all these people are normal and I'm broken." The fact that I used to be HL and responsive and multiorgasmic and all of that had vanished really got to me.

I've learned to stop beating myself up over it, and to start loving what I have got going on. Do your best. Be your best self. There's a lot more to you than HL or LL, ya know?

roo and snowy siggie
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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 3:36pm

No, I don't really want to be HL.

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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 3:06pm

It never ceases to amaze me when LLs complain they are LL.

When you see it coming, duck!