I don't know if I'd say I have a LL but my bf sure has an HL imo.
Everybody's different, and ultimately you'll have to decide what you can and cannot live with. I know that I COULD NOT live with a man who wanted it three times a day (or even once a day, for that matter), no matter how wonderful he was in other ways. It's just too far off my own rhythm. I don't think you have anything to feel inadequate about.