update, landmines mostly avoided for now
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|Mon, 03-03-2008 - 6:17pm|
Well, I think we have had more sex in the last couple weeks than in the three months before them! I initiated on Tues morning, then skipped Thurs morning (my bad!) But made it up to him Friday. Then we were at it twice this weekend!! The ED issues seem to be abating for the most part, for which I am very grateful!
The only current issue for me is that he wants verbal confirmation of "how it was" after every encounter. I answered him honestly the first time..."It was good" I said. This started a huge discussion about what about it made it "good" and not great. ARRGGGHHHH. I told him the truth. It started out great, but somewhere in the middle it sort of went awry.
Since that first discussion I have started overstating sometimes. I just don't want to analyze every sexual encounter. I also don't think it's a big deal. Good is GOOD! That's fine with me, hell, most of the time, I don't really care all that much at all. I am just doing it to keep us close, I don't NEED my toes curled!
Overall though he seems happy with the way things are, and he has definitely "heard" me about what I want/need out him to make an encounter more successful. Hopefully I will be able to maintain this pace and quality will improve too.
On another note, diet and exercise is going well, I've lost 6 lbs in two weeks!