What is going on??

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Registered: 02-08-2008
What is going on??
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Fri, 02-08-2008 - 2:06pm
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 02-08-2008 - 4:02pm

Hmmm. Anything going on that may have triggered the increase in desire?? Any new friends who may have a much more active sex life and he is trying to keep up with the "Jones'" in a sexual way???


How old is he? If this is new, I wonder if he isn't going thru a midlife "crisis"...needing to be reassured that he is still attractive and desireable??

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Registered: 02-08-2008
Fri, 02-08-2008 - 4:27pm

Well about 2 yrs ago he had a Very close encounter with death. His lung collapsed and he had about 5 min to live by the time he decided to go to the ER.

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Fri, 02-08-2008 - 5:16pm

Do you not want to be intimate with him at all? Is there another way he could present it, more "romantically" ??


Was it just new & fun when you go together? How long did that phase last?


When did you notice you weren't into it anymore? Do you want to be into it again, or just want him to stop?


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 02-08-2008
Fri, 02-08-2008 - 6:20pm

No...I do want to be intimate with him, its just the way he brings it up now.

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Registered: 10-03-2003
Fri, 02-08-2008 - 9:40pm

No...I do want to be intimate with him, its just the way he brings it up now.

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Mon, 02-11-2008 - 11:13am

When you tell him not to say that ... do you give another option. A way you would like to hear it?


Or is there no way he could say it, that would be acceptable? Do you just tire of the asking?


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 10-03-2003
Mon, 02-11-2008 - 9:50pm
I have told my DH of things I would like to hear, or ways he can tell me he wants sex and he's only done it a few times.
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Registered: 02-06-2007
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 11:26am

When we first got together.....lets just say...My bff says we did it more the Rabbits!