Why can't I be in the mood?
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|Thu, 07-26-2007 - 6:10pm|
Hi! I'm new to this but I could really use some help. I'm a perfectly fit and healthy 27 year old who is happily married (except for one problem). I'm never in the mood and I don't know why.
I have a two year old (she's absolutely adorable) and ever since I gave birth I just haven't been interested. I mean I want to but I just don't have the desire or the passion I use to. I asked my OBGYN about the problem twice, once for my 6 month check up after the baby, and another time at my "yearly exam" and he just blew me off and told me I had nothing to worry about.
This loss of desire has really put a damper on our marriage and every day that goes by it seems to get worse. I am still very attracted to my husband and I do still want to have sex (in my mind) but my body never seems to be interested.
I even went so far as to sign up for this medical trail for women with Hyperactive Female Desire dysfunction and was turned down due to the fact that I haven't been on the same birth control for more than 6 months. Which if anyone on here would like to see if they qualify for that research trail the web site is www.radiantresearch.com
Help! What do I do? Who do I see? What book do I read?