Why Does My LL DW...

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Registered: 04-06-2006
Why Does My LL DW...
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Wed, 04-14-2010 - 9:05am

flirt and come on to me with sexual advances when it is carved in stone obvious that we don't have the time because of a scheduled obligation, or some other unmovable obstruction, to follow through with a sexual encounter?

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 9:19am
I don't know but why don't you call her bluff to see what she does? Maybe pull down your pants and say, "OK, I guess we've got a few minutes to spare." ;)
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Registered: 01-24-2007
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 9:28am

My husband used to do this all the time, it drove me crazy!

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 9:39am
Does she ever gripe that you don't cuddle and flirt and kiss enough without it
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Registered: 04-06-2006
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 9:55am

Thanks, all of your thoughts have also crossed my mind.

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Registered: 04-06-2006
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 10:01am

Does she ever gripe that you don't cuddle and flirt and kiss enough without it

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 10:12am

You do too much.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 04-06-2006
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 10:43am

You might be right, but over the years I have learned that I'm damned if I do, and damned if I don't.

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Registered: 02-03-2009
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 2:28pm
...have you ever "given in" and had sex with her when she appears to be in such an amorous mood?...in spite of the mess or the appointment?...
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Registered: 04-06-2006
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 3:28pm
...have you ever "given in" and had sex with her when she appears to be in such an amorous mood?...in spite of the mess or the appointment?...

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Registered: 02-21-2003
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 11:25pm

I'm sure you know the answer. She gets to "earn points" for trying, without the mess and bother of following through. I understand why it would be maddening to the HL partner, but I also understand the psychology behind it. I'm sure I've behaved that way myself.

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