About open relationships

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2010
About open relationships
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Wed, 04-20-2011 - 10:12pm

Hi all,

I haven’t posted here in quite a while because I realized that the issues in my relationship weren’t about ML.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2003
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 5:35am

Well put! I agree with everything you've written. Just wondering to what extent the limited supply of sex in your relationship has to do with the fact that he has to parcel out his sexual energy to three different people.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 6:44am

...I'm curious as to what he says when you tell him that you would like to have more sex with him or spend more time with him (which more sex would require)...

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2010
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 2:07pm

You're right, FLM, in that the amount of sex we have is effected by the fact that he has two other partners.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2010
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 2:21pm

I rarely ask for more sex specifically; I will ask for additional time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2009
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 4:40pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 4:57pm

I'm confused about why you are posting.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2010
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 6:11pm

Not sure why the confusion....

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2010
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 9:23pm

Hi TG,

>Thanks for sharing your story! It fascinates me, and I have quite a few a questions, if you don't mind.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2009
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 10:09pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2010
Fri, 04-22-2011 - 12:14am

Sure, be glad to answer them.

So, you don't want to get married, but do you have the desire to live with him full time? If so, how do you come to terms with not being able to?
Right now I don’t want to live with him full time.

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