Ace

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Registered: 07-09-1998
Ace
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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 4:30pm
I owe you an apology. I started to warn you on friday that I thought the sundae surprise might be too much for your DH and I deleted it. I wish I had said something. After I read your post I felt so sorry for you. I have BTDT and been just as hurt.

I was also wondering if you are going to let his controlling behavior continue. It seems to me that your posts have gone from totally hurt and pissed to I''ll just work around him. I will do what I want and he won't find out. What happens when he does find out? I hate to tell you this but he will find out.

Have you changed your mind about leaving??

I was just worried and concerned for your safety and the safety of your son.

LR

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In reply to: ladyroberts
Wed, 04-02-2003 - 4:49pm
I have moved out of our bedroom into the master bedroom. Took my lamp and my alarm clock, so it isn't like he can't tell it's at least temporarily permanent. He hasn't asked about it. I won't go back until I know he wants me back, but I also won't go back just because he asks or tells me to, and DEFINITELY not until I'm comfortable going back. If he ever asks, I'll say no, I'm not ready, even if I'm dying to, just so he isn't telling me what to do even in the form of a question. Then when it's on MY terms and I know he wants me back in our bed, I'll "move" back.

Amanda

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Registered: 07-09-1998
In reply to: ladyroberts
Wed, 04-02-2003 - 5:02pm
Amanda,

I just hope this all works out best for you.

LR

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