Just ran across this book on amazon.
Anyone read it?
>>>Do NOT, I repeat, do NOT send it to your wife's kindle. YOU need to read it first, and make damn sure it's something realistic and not offensive before you even begin to push it on her.<<<
Yes, I would like to read it first, preferably on the kindle, but she would most assuredly find it.
Even if it's legit and you could offer it to her wihout offence, would she be motivated to read AND apply it?
>>>would she be motivated to read AND apply it?<<<
Yes. There is nothing more irritating, IMO, than this kind of hint. There's a good chance she'll see it as passive-aggressive and manipulative. Instead, I suggest you come right out and tell her that you are craving more sexual connection in your relationship, came across this book, and hoped you might both read it and discuss it together. Make it clear that it's YOUR agenda (nothing wrong with that) on the table.
When you see it coming, duck!
>>She has to want to change<<
I see no sign that she wants to or even if she's "trying."