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|Sat, 01-04-2014 - 10:05pm|
Not sure if i'm in the rght posting place but here goes...
hubby and i have been married for amost 10 years on the outside things are great... Then we get to the bedroom department... Everything has to be on his terms and i mean everything. He isn't a dominance person but has to be the one to initiate sex if i attempt to initiate sex it just doesn't happen!! Oral sex is fine but nothing else. Have asked him several times to open up and talk about it but, he just clams up even further. I fear its driving a wedge between us as he wont speak and wants to brush it under the carpet whereas i want to get to the bottom of it. any suggestions would be good cos i'm feeling really low in myself at this point thinking its obviously me thats the problem.