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Registered: 05-04-2006
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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 9:24am

No, I am not confused and paging Freelancemomma....I am saying F..M..L...

1:00 am attempt to have sex this morning.

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Registered: 09-16-2004
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 9:31am

:shakes head:

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Registered: 05-04-2006
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 10:29am
I've got a mental picture of the dog in the hat shaking his head back and forth...

It's sad when you picture other forum posters as their avatars, but he is cute, and I know my dogs were a source of great comfort to me this morning as I was dragging through the house trying to get ready for work. They love me, and don't think I suck.
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Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 10:56am
Well, I know you are staying with him regardless, but I think your guy sucks as a partner for you. He may be a great guy in many ways. But he is not the right guy for you.

And please do not think for a minute you are broken. He is. His ego is. He needs you to lubricate to validate his self-esteem? To prove to himself that he turns you on? F him. Tell him to get over himself and get a tube of KY and thank the Lord that you are willing to consent despite his being such an azzzz.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 05-04-2006
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 11:00am
>>Tell him to get over himself and get a tube of KY and thank the Lord that you are willing to consent despite his being such an azzzz. <<

Oh there is lube on both nightstands. Apparently he was mad because I didn't grab the one on my side of the bed and use it when he was having trouble getting in. He's mad because he has to do everything..... hence the "you're not trying hard enough" discussion that ensued.
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Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 1:17pm
Oh please, he is just ashamed that he wasn't hard enough to get in, and he is taking that out on you. Bad on him. I can't imagine that you complained he wasn't harder, so (again) he should be thankful you are so understanding and keep his complaints to himself.

When you see it coming, duck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2006
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 1:34pm
>>I can't imagine that you complained he wasn't harder, so (again) he should be thankful you are so understanding and keep his complaints to himself. <<

Yeah, and I got the "I know it's not me, because it works just fine with the other girl" also....F...M....L
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Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 3:04pm

...I'm a little pissed at you that you refer

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Registered: 05-04-2006
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 6:10pm
z,

Thanks for having the moral outrage that I don't have the energy or cojones to have for myself. Yeah, it was pretty low to say "look this is all YOUR fault, because I don't have this problem with the other woman that I'm sleeping with" I pretty much shut down at that point. I thought to myself "well good for the two of you, maybe she wants to cook your meals and do your laundry and have you bitch at her about every bleeding thing she does for a while."

I've completely broken down at this point. I don't know what else to do. Crying is the only option that holds any appeal, and my throat is already sore, and my eyes are too bloodshot to keep it up much longer.
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Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: mirandarr8
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 9:50pm

..I hope you are enjoying some sort of peace tonight, I really do...

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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: mirandarr8
Thu, 07-14-2011 - 4:44am

Hi M

I too am shocked and sorry.

dragowoman

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