Formula for a happy marriage?
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|Thu, 03-27-2003 - 11:28am|
People here keep talking about "compromising" on sex. I'm not sure that's how we should look at things. Sex doesn't exist in a vacuum. I think the high libido-low libido "clash" is often just a reflection of different priorities. Couples have to compromise on all sorts of things. This is just one piece of the puzzle.
If partner A is getting his top three needs met, and partner B is getting her top three needs met--both are going to be happy. But who says those needs are going to be the same?
(No jokes, now, about trading "sex" for more help around the house.)
I mean, this doesn't have to be crass.