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|Tue, 12-13-2011 - 6:28pm|
I stumbled upon this forum looking for a solution to my problem (I didnt even know it had a defenition!) and just read untill my eyes hurt (about 4 hours now!)... So thank you for letting me know I am not alone...
I am a 27 y/o guy... a HL in a ML relationship (three years). My girlfriend, 25 y/o (who I live with) is somewhere between regular L and LL (to my perception).. We have sex about 2-3 times a week, but I get the feeling that it's because I pressure her into it..
I really love her and think she is awesome... I hope to marry her some day, but we (mainly I !) always have the sex issue on our minds, and it creates a lot of friction. I am afraid to addmit it to her but I keep thinking about sexual things I did with former HL partners and this makes me feel bad about our relationship, and sometimes even mistreat her.
She doesn't feel comfortable talking about sex, but I have (finally!) convinced her to read some articles about sex trying to get things going...
To be honest, reading here didn't make me feel to positive about my relationship with her (and our shot at being happy together on the long run), but I still love her and I'm not willing to give up yet.
I read a post here describing