He just doesn't get it. I need to feel desired and wanted!
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|Mon, 09-26-2011 - 9:31am|
I'm at my wits end with my husband and our sex life. I've tried talking to him over and over and it goes in one ear and out the other. I've never had a problem with men telling me I was attractive or sexually desirable until I marred my husband. I feel so undesirable and wanted right now it sucks. He doesn't make any moves ever and his way of trying to appease me which is like once a month will be him saying we'll have date night tonight. Then it doesn't happen until two or three days later and after me getting after him about it. I've tried talking to him one on one about how I'm feeling neglected and unwanted and he says well it's not true. I get hurt and I cry and it only pushes him away more. I'm fourty and my kids are grown and out of the house. I have guys message me saying they want to get together with me but I would not do that because I am married and I do love my husband but I need to feel like a women and I don't. We have been married a year and no he wasn't like that when we met. We had a long distant relationship that was over 2000 miles away for four months. I sometimes feel like maybe if I just left and didn't see him for a few days then I will get that attention met. I'm so discouraged and I don't know what else to do. I just want him to show me that I'm still desirable. Any suggestions would be great. Tired of being dissapointed and getting no where.