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|Wed, 05-05-2010 - 9:16am|
Well, the other shoe is about to fall. I am going to try to control the timing of it to best deal with the situation. He’s been different for the last few weeks, he doesn’t really touch me at all, he’s not hurting me, he’s not initiating sex in any way, he is not touching me in bed. Now, honestly, I am pretty happy right now. I wouldn’t mind having had sex a few times in the last few weeks, (I’ve thought about it maybe 6 times in the last 3 weeks) but overall, I feel like things are going smoothly. He’s not being grouchy or hyper critical or anything.
Here’s the issue. He’s been keeping way away from me in bed, and in the last few days he’s been talking about “building a wall” and “going to sleep somewhere else” and he’s putting up a pillow wall between us. Night before last he said “I just want to sleep without being bothered, just like you.” And last night he said something about “isnt’ that what roommates do?” I’ve sort of shrugged off these comments for the most part, because at 10:30 at night I am NOT willing to start a big old fight, when I have to work in the morning. But a fight is going to come, so I might as well try to do something to make it more convenient and maybe beneficial, right?
So I thought tonight, after dinner, I’d launch a discussion. But I am not sure what my approach should be. I need help. I need strength. I need guidance.
What say you all?