HELP: 23 an NO sex drive!!!!
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|Sat, 06-26-2010 - 4:18am|
Ok, I'm 23, married for 2 1/2 yrs w/ 2kids.
I have no sex drive at all. In High school my sex drive was very high then when i was like 20 ( a few months before I became pregnant) my sex drive decreased dramatically! and after giving birth I now have none!And now I have none. It's getting to the point where I know my husbands fed up and on a verge or divorce. I have no idea y. Sometimes I think it maybe cuz I'm stressed but slot of my stresses went away. And yet I will I dread having it. I'm still attracted to my husband but he's at his whitts end. The times I do do it,,,,,it's not even that pleasurable to me. I really don't even get arroused even after a lot of foreplay. After u had my daughter it was painful to have sex bit overtime that got better and now it sometimes painful but even then, I jus don't get arroused. I love my husband very much and have told him a wholenlist of reasons on y maybe my linbidos low but he feels they r jus excuses since it's been going on for so long and thinks there's another reason that I'm jus not tellin him.
I really believe something has to b wrong with me cuz I'm waaaayyy to young to b having this problem especially since I used to have a great sex drive and sexual relationship with him..
PLEASE.... I really need help and advice! Has ne one experiences this??? I'm desprate cuz I don't wanna lose him and wanna make it work.
O and I have spoke to my obgyn about this but this was when I was pregnant with my second child so he really didn't wanna talk to me about it. He said he jus want to focus on the baby and no I don't have insurance so I can't even go to a dr anymore to find out =(