How Important Is Sex? Am I Being Selfish?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-30-2009
How Important Is Sex? Am I Being Selfish?
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Sat, 01-14-2012 - 10:13am

So, here's the deal.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2011
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 10:49am

Well, if it was the first time, in regards to lasting long, I would give the guy a few more chances.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 11:37am
Size may be inmportant now, but In the long term when it comes to settling down and having a family, all the good qualities he possesses will be much more important than "his size"
You could marry a guy that has more down there but ends up being abusive, cheats, or turns out to be an alcoholic. In the end you have to ask yourself what's more important to you. If you're thinking good husband and father material you may be able to overlook his size. Although you could find a "large man" that possesses all those good qualities too. GOOD LUCK.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 11:56am

I would not base your decision on one time--if it's the first time neither one of you knows what the other likes to do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 2:04pm
Did you enjoy those two hour sex marathons? How often would they happen. Is that important to you?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2003
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 3:16pm
"How important is sex?" has no answer. "How important is sex to you?" has a definite answer. It's up to you to see whether your boyfriend has the capacity to meet your answer. I have a sense (though I could be wrong) that it's about more than size or duration. If your boyfriend had done lots of things that excited you, you may have felt more encouraged about the whole thing. In any case, you need to give him at least a few more "tries" before making a decision to proceed or pull back.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2011
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 3:20pm

Size may be inmportant now, but In the long term when it comes to settling down and having a family, all the good qualities he possesses will be much more important than "his size"

I can agree and disagree with this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-30-2009
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 7:25pm

I actually enjoyed the two hour sessions.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-30-2009
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 7:31pm

Thanks for the advice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2012
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 8:50pm
Tiny........I feel ya. I just had to give up a man who could keep up with every demand I had and then some (yes for hours). I always believed multiple O's and the G-spot were a myth....then I met my stud. Yes, those "supermen" exist and when you get one......well, how do you lower the bar? Also, women who say size doesnt matter IMHO haven't had to deal with one thats "too small". Unfortunately, size is a factor. Give the new guy a chance in that area but......sorry. I have nothing.
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 10:35pm

Good passionate sex is very important.

Goldfish

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