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Registered: 01-27-2006
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Mon, 08-15-2011 - 8:39pm

Hi all.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2003
In reply to: jgteach
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 9:07pm
Welcome! I can relate as I'm also a female who gets little out of sex. How do you deal with the mismatch?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2011
In reply to: jgteach
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 10:18pm

Did you always dislike sex, or did you really enjoy sex and now you get nothing out of it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2009
In reply to: jgteach
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 5:58am

The usual very qualified "welcome"!

Vent all you like, and use us as you wish....

Are your kids still young?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
In reply to: jgteach
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 10:16am

Welcome to the board, Julianna, and welcome to Love!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2007
In reply to: jgteach
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 12:50pm

Some of us HL people find that sex and the energy between two people are what binds us together.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2006
In reply to: jgteach
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 4:40pm
How do I deal with it? Sadly, I just do it. The more I turn him down the more grumpy he gets. It's like a sacrifice. In order to keep him happy I need to give in. Sucks.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2006
In reply to: jgteach
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 4:40pm
I use to like it. Not with him. Never with him, but in my other lives.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2006
In reply to: jgteach
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 4:43pm
Kids are 8 and 5. I only ever wanted sex when trying to conceive them. There was a goal. I don't reach orgasm with him, so there needed to be some other goal to reach. Now he says we're not having kids (I want more) so I have no reason.

When we first met he was a virgin. I... wasn't. ;) I attributed bad sex to him being a newbie. But he never got better. And I got bored.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2006
In reply to: jgteach
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 4:50pm
Yes, I agree that it's more than just "sex". But it's not just sex. I don't love him the way partners should love each other. We'd probably make good roommates. I've never been in love with him. So I can't even enjoy sex knowing I'm giving him pleasure.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2006
In reply to: jgteach
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 4:54pm
>>I don't love him the way partners should love each other. We'd probably make good roommates. I've never been in love with him. So I can't even enjoy sex knowing I'm giving him pleasure. <<

What made you marry and procreate with this person? Seems like a bad decision.....

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