Is it me or is it him? Should I stay or go?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-20-2011
Is it me or is it him? Should I stay or go?
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Tue, 10-18-2011 - 9:39am

Hi again

I know I posted on here the other day but I didn't really give a lot of background on my situation and I've been reading other messages on here and thought I would post again just in case anyone is in a similar situation.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 10:08am

It seems like a fairly straightforward case here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-20-2011
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 10:16am

hello and thanks for your reply.

I don't know if the self confidence thing gets magnified because it's affecting it (because I feel he's not attracted to me) I have never doubted how I look until now.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 10:16am
Thank him for evoking warm feelings and warm memories and let him go. Not working for either of you. He triggers your self-doubt and you trigger his IBS. Not what either of you wants for the other.

Thank him for helping you understand what you want and need in a relationship, and then bid him a fond farewell.

When you see it coming, duck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-20-2011
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 10:48am

thankyou, but really?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2009
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 10:57am

"it's gone from being amazing to virtually nothing and I feel on the edge of tears most of the time"

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2009
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 10:58am
Becky1775 wrote:

thankyou, but really?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-20-2011
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 11:06am

Right, sorry for asking the wrong question, I just hoped I might have

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2009
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 11:15am
" Right, sorry for asking the wrong question, I just hoped I might have get some advice from someone who's experienced the same kind of situation, which is what i thought these boards were for, not just a blunt 'dump your boyfriend'. "

Do read the latest posts by other people .You will get all your answers there.Youve been lurking but not reading and comprehending.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 11:30am

Right, sorry for asking the wrong question, I just hoped I might have

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2003
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 11:51am

<< The resentment will build and infect every part of the relationship.

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