Jealousy = Passion = Love?
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|Tue, 09-28-2010 - 11:40am|
I've noticed that several LL people seem less jealous than what I am used to.
Before I met my current partner, I wasn't really jealous. I considered monogamy a good idea, but I was fairly relaxed about it. However, once I got together with him, I had to eat up all those times I said: "Relax... What's the big deal? If he cheats, he cheats" and "Why can't he do that? What's bothering you? It's not like he is having sex with anyone...". Now I feel a twinge just from looking at the Christmas party photo where some girl is sat on his lap for the effect.
I am also far more passionate, in bed and out of bed, with my current one. I have to have him sometimes. And he makes me so angry... I never used to get angry about anything. And he makes me cry sometimes, even though I am not one to shed tears for small stuff.
And last, but not least... I love him. Something I, quite honestly, did not feel for my previous boyfriends. I thought I did, but nope... That wasn't it.
So... please don't shoot me for asking... could it be that some of you with low libidos simply aren't that in love with your partner?