For the last 13 years,
Curious, what was her reason for leaving as it sounds like the relationship was done a while?
I hope your future turns out well for you.
I don't think she has written that story quite yet. A few years ago, I learned to turn my sexual desire on and off according to my need for self respect. I think it was such a power shift in the relationship that she grew to resent it.
Ultimately, I think she was keeping her demons at bay by exercising control over me in place of where and what her true issues were. By taking away that option, those demons continually gained control of her and her next outlet was to find 'herself' in another young woman and coddle her beyond imagination. This other woman then managed to push me out of the picture so that what my wife was providing for her would not be threatened or diluted.
Heck, maybe I'm still writing my story on this whole thing too.
WOW I had written you off as a success story since you hadn't been around and last time you posted you were having sex. Well what a turn of events it seems. I am sorry to hear about your divorce but it sounds like you have managed to move on.
Funny I just asked my DW not to long ago if she had any interest in women. I let her know that I would be totally ok with it. (hee hee hee) She said that it never crossed her mind.
Although things are better with us, ML is still a nasty roller coaster and you never know when it is going to take a dive.
Good luck with the new relationship.
<<...she left you for a woman?...maybe she isn't LL after all...maybe she's normal libido-ed or HL in a relationship with a woman...>>
I think it could end up there but only because 'men are the abusers in this world and only women are safe"