<< I have to tell ya, THAT was a real turn OFF!
I told him that it is a bit annoying that the more sex I give him the more he wants. >>
I believe you told us ('ya') the better response that you should have told him.
Once a HL realizes that the sex he really/usually wants is that which is given freely and without duress and the best way to get that is to be encouraging, both parties end up in a better position.
That's the message that needs to get through to him, if not both of you.
Yes, I'm uneasy with aspects of the OP because it seems polarising to me.
Oh, no the OP didn't say that, I was projecting what he might think or fear.