Newbie question about marriage and ML
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|Wed, 11-17-2010 - 12:08am|
I just found this section of iVillage and I am so afraid that I belong here! I am a 34 year old female, married for 9 years to my husband, he just turned 39. We have 2 kids, both under 4. I think that I have a normal range libido - ideal for me would be sex once or twice a week. My husband I believe has a low libido and it's not fun for me. I am not sure why this happens, but we just had sex yesterday for the first time in 4 months.
We routinely go months without sex and then the only sex we have is after days of my complaining and asking my husband to please make time for it. I have to remind him that I want/need to have sex with him and that it makes me very sad and irritable when we don't. He claims to want to have sex also. But, frankly, it is often awkward when we do and not that great.
I keep thinking - maybe I smell bad? maybe