No foreplay~only 4 Orgasms in 1 1/2 yrs..huh!
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|Mon, 02-21-2011 - 9:40pm|
What is going on with my BF of a 1 1/2yrs. We are both in our early 50's..he is 4 yrs younger.
I have only had maybe 3-4 times an orgasm in almost 2 yrs and I am frustrated with him in that dept.
He hardly does any foreplay at all and the last time he has done any oral was before Christmas and we are now in Feb. I told him at least twice now that I need more longer foreplay and to enjoy my body and get to know it, but instead he just does the same thing, a couple of rubs and thats it and hes ready to jump on..I give him alot of oral and I have also backed off as well..its the same ole thing.
I am sooo bored with not being on the same page and its becoming very ackward in bed.
He does have some ED, which he takes pills for at times. But its not just about him and I told him that. Its like he rushes through it. He doesnt try and get me off.
He is wonderful in every other way except that and then I look at well is that everything in life at my age because everything else is so good..and he wants to get married, but i cant get married unless it gets better in that dept.
Am I being silly here, but i just dont know what to do...its not sinking in...and yes he says he loves sex...but he doesnt have a clue what he is doing in foreplay...HELP!!! What should i do..