PE problem

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Registered: 06-07-2013
PE problem
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Wed, 06-12-2013 - 10:19am

DH is 44 and has been having problems with premature ejaculation for years.  So I'm left going without a lot of the time.  I am tired of being "finished off".  It is just not the same as us going off while having intercourse.  Anyone know what we can do to address this?

 

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Registered: 06-17-2014
In reply to: niecey73
Tue, 06-17-2014 - 7:50pm

Ive tried many creams and pills with no success. In my case this this xperform (sure you can google it somewhere) helped me. And btw my current girlfriend never found out Im using it :D

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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: niecey73
Sun, 06-16-2013 - 10:20pm

  There are techniques to slow PE down.  but it requires work.  Much of PE is still not known and what time frame are we talking 3minute, 5 minutes, 10 minutes?  Many women do not orgasm by intercourse alone.  How experienced is he?  How experienced are you? 

Fissy is right.  But it is up to you to decide what you are willing to do or say or tolerate.

dragowoman

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Registered: 05-20-2009
In reply to: niecey73
Thu, 06-13-2013 - 12:47am

Is he unhappy about it, or is it just you?  Has he talked to a doctor about it?  Intercourse isn't the be-all end-all of sex.  Have you tried having orgasms during foreplay?  It really shouldn't matter where the orgasms come from, only that you have them, and if you've had them, and THEN move on to intercourse, he might even be able to relax and last longer if the pressure is off him.  Also, different positions, like you on top will give you orgasms if you do it right.....and most men don't finish that way.  Orgasms are orgasms, no matter how you get them.