Post-Viagra

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Registered: 02-07-2003
Post-Viagra
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Fri, 03-28-2003 - 9:21am
After our little Viagra night, I was very concerned about the next time. I knew that DH had said he would prob keep the Viagra for the times when we really had time to enjoy it, so I was unsure if that mean, weekend only sex, which of course I do not want! So last night I decided to test the waters. I asked him if he wanted to go to bed, making sure he got my meaning loud and clear. He did exactly what I had asked him to do when he did not want to, he said, "I would love to hold you, kiss you, give you a hand job or oral, but I am tired and not sure if I can do anything else." We both had dreadful days, so I knew the tired really was not "just" an excuse this time. His comments really did make it go smoother. When we went to the bed, I was not expecting anything more than an "O" either from hands or oral. Well somewhere in the middle of all of it, he moves it to intercourse, so maybe there is something to be said about the lasting effects of Viagra, even when not taking the pills.

I do have my fingers crossed though, that this lasts.

Jen

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 12:57pm
with all your success, I am thinking of bringing up the topic of Viagra this weekend but don't know how to start the conversation. last time I asked him if he would use Viagra I had just seen the commercial. I don't want to hurt his fragile ego but I want to get him thinking about it as an option to his morning frustration. And from what you have seen it's seems to have helpful after effects also.

I hope I can find my nerve without upsetting him.

LR

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Fri, 03-28-2003 - 1:02pm
I am sure if you watch tv for more than five minutes, you will see the commerical again. How I first brought it up was I had read an article about the black market for it, for men who don't have problems, but it would allow then to almost be continuous hard. I brought it up from this as a "wouldn't that be fun... " kind of conversation. We slowly worked it towards maybe that would be helpful. I was also able to get DH to go to the doc about his problems with total concern for his health. As we had been through the whole fertility thing with me, I mentioned, maybe this could be a bigger problem... But I think the only thing that finally made him make the call was a midnight talk with me sobbing uncontrollably, and him knowing that it was his fault of sorts that had pushed me there.

Once he was at the docs asking about the problems, the doc mentioned Viagra.

Good Luck this weekend and keep me posted on how it goes.

Jen

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Fri, 03-28-2003 - 1:13pm
Thanks for all your help.

LR

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