On the other hand, I caught myself feeling sorry for Magnaniman's wife when he told us that she was now leaning toward buying and wearing the lingerie he likes. I'm not saying my reaction was justified, but I found myself thinking, "yet another LL who has to stretch and strain to accommodate her partner's wishes."
It's interesting to me that this was your reaction.
"You've alluded to this before, but I don't understand exactly what you mean.
As a HL :
"I was under the impression that she never had sex with you unless she wanted to, but you're saying that you believe that once a month or so, she talks herself into having sex (or steps up to the plate) in order to please you?"