Regarding dh's soft penis...

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Regarding dh's soft penis...
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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 1:50pm
Hi all,

Thanks for your input and suggestions yesterday. It has really helped me tremendously. I now have a new perspective on things!

I want you to know (Tman, especially, I feel like I may have given the wrong impression) that I have never considered his limp penis to be yucky or creepy. In fact, I don't find ANYTHING on my dh to be yucky, including and especially his penis--whatever its current state may be! What I DO find creepy is me slowly disrobing in front of him, sidling into bed naked and pressing myself up against him, draping my leg over his, rubbing his chest and arms and kissing him and still....nothing. If I want to pursue things at this point, then I have to first somehow get access to it (my dh could rival Jackie Chan with his arm-deflecting moves) and then stroke it to hardness. THAT'S where the Creep Factor comes in for me. It starts to feel like a violation of sorts! Which I guess it is...but he SWEARS he wants me to initiate so he will just have to make up his mind what it is that he really wants--to have 100% control over his body or for his wife to initiate sex.

Anyway, I am going to proceed with a different attitude from now on and stop being so personally offended at the sight of it.

Thanks to all who responded!

RG

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 03-26-2003 - 1:57pm
I understand completely. It's also hard to take when you hear every guy on the board say a naked wife/gf=hard on. Wouldn't that be nice!

Rooster, I think we need some of that Viagra! LOL

LR

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