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|Wed, 09-14-2011 - 6:43pm|
When we first got together (over four years ago) I was the HL partner and my husband was very LL. I was constantly frustrated, complained a lot, and probably didn't deal with it in a very healthy way, but it was miserably frustrating, and I couldn't understand why he didn't want to have sex. After 2-3 years, and a lot of communication, we were having fairly regular sex, both pretty happy.
Well, about six months ago (I'm not exactly sure when it happened, but within the last 6-8 months) our roles completely switched. He wants it all the time, and I just have no sex drive anymore. It is even more frustrating than when I wasn't getting what I wanted because now I feel horribly guilty that I don't want to have sex when I can tell he is feeling the same way I was before. I can relate to how he feels because I know how much it sucks.