Says he loves me but there is no sex
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|Mon, 08-02-2010 - 8:50pm|
I've recently started dating a wonderful man. He is 60, and in good shape. I'm 50, attractive, extremely fit. He's been out of relationships for 20 years now, and has used Internet porn to satisfy himself. I've been out of relationships for 10 years, and had a pretty low libido while single, but now with him I am "ready" all the time.
However, he is simply unable to get it up. He claims he has a low libido - and yet before I came into the picture, he said he was doing it (in front of the computer) 2-3 times a week. He says (and I believe him) that he hasn't been able to look at porn since we've been together - he just has not desire for it at all. But he seems to have no desire for me either. He likes to hug, kiss, hold -- and that is "enough" for him.
It isn't for me and I'm starting to feel very angry and rejected. Help!?