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|Sun, 01-08-2012 - 7:56am|
Wednesday is supposed to be the one night a week that we have sex. When we made this arrangement I was afraid that it would mean that there would never be a chance at us having sex more than once a week, and that has pretty much turned out to be the case.
However, that's sort of a side issue. What I want to know is how other couples handle it when one partner isn't living up to his/her side of an agreement.
We have sex on Wednesday less than half the time. Wife needs to "decompress" by watching TV, which leads to her falling asleep on the couch, which inevitably leads to "I know it's Wednesday, but..." We'll end up having sex sometime over the weekend (which means that "it's almost Wednesday" by the time we do it, so there's no chance she'll be receptive to advances on Monday or Tuesday.) Lately we most often have morning quickies while the kids watch cartoons--Her favorite type of sex.
So what do other HLs do when their LL partners aren't living up to agreements they've made? What are the "consequences" for your LL when s/he refuses to meet basic minimal needs s/he has promised?