Sex Drive is Gone

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Registered: 10-11-2007
Sex Drive is Gone
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Thu, 04-29-2010 - 11:30pm

Hi,


I am 29 and my b/f is 31.

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Registered: 02-03-2009
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 7:58am
...speak to you physician about trying a different medicine...examine other areas of the relationship...do you live together?...are finances tight?...is there an underlying problem that both of you (or, just you) are not acknowledging?...after you've exhausted the above (and other suggestions from other responders, you need to decide if you can live with someone that you can't satisfy (sexually)...

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 10:49am
Why do you feel that you need to be horny to have sex? There are many reasons to have sex and being horny is just one of them.
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Registered: 02-02-2004
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 11:13am

>>>>> after you've exhausted the above (and other suggestions from other responders, you need to decide if you can live with someone that you can't satisfy (sexually)... <<<<<


A good start.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 05-04-2006
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 11:16am

Yes, hold, I'd have run like the wind if I had thought that way when DH and I first got together.

Of course, I'd run like the wind from most any relationship now, if I were considering a new one....

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 11:24am
Which is why I continue to avoid pressing the issue with Mrs. Hold.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 02-21-2003
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 11:45am

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LOL. Last I checked, most elephants can't fit through living-room doors (unless they're baby elephants, if you get my drift).

F.

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 11:56am

First up - congratulations.

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 12:00pm

Excuse me, Hold, some of my best friends are elephants, and I'm disturbed about the specism going on on this board.


Come to think of it, don't you just love their cute little tails and the way their ears waggle sooo suggestively.

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 2:25pm

Last I checked, most elephants can't fit through living-room doors...


Well, it must have gotten in somehow! Or maybe, in our case, we built the house around it.

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Registered: 02-21-2003
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 4:27pm

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Like all elephants, it got in when it was a wee little baby. And then grew and grew...

F.