Should Guys tell you beforehand that they have a LITTLE Penis?

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Should Guys tell you beforehand that they have a LITTLE Penis?
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Sun, 09-09-2012 - 3:59pm

I went to bed with someone thinking it was going to be great, hot, awesome sex.  Then he had a penis no bigger than a pack of certs.  I was shocked to say the least.  Newborns have bigger ones than he had.  I didn't want to be rude but I was thinking, "What the hell am I supposed to do with that?"  He acted like a stud and then acted like it was nothing and that's exactly what it was - NOTHING.  I'm still mad when I think about that.  Should women be warned at least?  I dont' mind small but C'mon now!

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Registered: 04-21-2005

or BIG ego little penis

 

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Registered: 04-21-2005

maybe he doesnt know hes small....

 

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Even as a guy wityh a small package, I don't have any problem with a woman wanting a guy with a big one. But I don't think she should put the onus on the guy to confess unpromoted. If she wants to know before she gets herself all worked up over him, she should ask.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 10-31-2005

In thinking about that, it doesn't really differ from a guy sizing up the breast sizes (or other physical attributes) of all the women at a party - or even pictures on a dating site for that matter. I guess we all have our criteria for a mate.

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Registered: 12-05-2006

When I was in my early 20's, I knew a young woman (smokin hot, mind you) that would select the partner she was planning to sleep with at a given party by going around and making out with guys while briefly going down their pants. She said that it told her all that she needed to know about a number of things (size being one) and eliminated any disappointment or embarrassment during sex.

I actually met her as one of her 'prospects' (she was only a decent kisser) but stopped her when she attempted to get ahold of my member. She was a bit shocked and said that I just earned a bj due to peaking her curiosity. I turned that down as well so we settled on a friendship from there.

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Registered: 02-02-2004
I agree with the viewpoint that if you have certain requirements for a lover, you should communicate them long before anyone's clothes come off. Nothing wrong with being a size queen. But you might want to warn prospective partners that if they don't measure up, things are likely to become awkward. If manual and oral and toys are not enough for you, and nothing but the "real thing" will do for you, let the guy know that. Let's him make a more gracious exit.

That way he doesn't get embarrassed, and you shouldn't feel bad that he withdrew from consideration. After all, he saved you from having to deal with his inadequacy. Thank goodness you dodged that bullet!

When you see it coming, duck!

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What are certs?  We don't have 'em here in Australia.

Kind of like Polo peppermints, only smaller.

 

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What are certs?  We don't have 'em here in Australia.

Kind of like Polo peppermints, only smaller.

 

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Registered: 02-13-2006

I didn't mean to laugh BUT that was funny!! lol

Man ...I have a friend who is ALL about the penis size and the kiss..

Is it just me or do we live in horrible times where people are just focusing on certain things like that?I mean whatever happened to if the person treated you right?OR if you were attracted to them?I know a kiss is important to people and that's good BUT the size of ones private parts...really???THAT important?

I WILL admit though that I was turned off by having a conversation with a guy when he told me that his package was really small...it was the fact that he told me something so private that I felt embarrassed...I didn't feel comfortable carrying on a conversation after that....I feel like someone had stated before...that only when you know someone for awhile and it's heading in that direction is when you might want to divulge that...its really a very personal matter to someone...

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