should I lie?
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|Fri, 07-16-2010 - 11:48am|
DH had a conversation with me yesterday that has me sort of tied in knots.
He woke me at 3 am for sex, I complied, did what I could that I knew would bring him off, and went back to sleep. That evening, in the car on the way to run errands, he said to me, "so I suppose that did nothing for you this morning, right?"
I shrugged, looked straight ahead and said, "not really, no."
He said something to the effect of, "thanks, that makes me feel real good" and of course it was dripping with sarcasm.
I replied to that, "what do you want me to do? Should I lie to you," knowing that lying is something he hates. He responded with a nasty-toned comment about "who knows when you've been lying." which hurt me deeply because I do my utmost best never to lie to him and believe I should have earned his trust by now, but obviously not.
WTF am I supposed to do? I'm totally bamboozled.