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|Mon, 05-17-2010 - 1:14am|
I have been a reader of this board off and on. This is the first time I am putting my issues here.
I feel my situation is somewhat different. I am an American of Indian origin. I got married back in India many years back following family traditions which is that the two families meet, boy and girl are introduced and if all OK, boy and girl get married.
As per the tradition, we had no sexual interaction before marriage. After marriage, the sexual frequency was OK but probably low from what I was looking forward to. We had sex 2 or 3 times a week (I would have loved to have it everyday or more).
Within couple of years of getting married, we immigrated to USA and have been living here ever since.
However, things changed when we moved to USA. My DW decided that she is "liberated" and does not need sex. The frequency dropped to once or twice a month. She even said that sex is overrated and has no real purpose other that producing kids.
I tried everything, I do most of the work in the house, Cleaning, Washing, ironing, cleaning dishes and much of cooking but it seems to make no difference. I thought that if I did house work, she will be happy and things will work out.
The problem I find is that she is always on the edge. She becomes defensive in any discussion and complains about everything that can go wrong.