Trying to understand

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Registered: 03-21-2007
Trying to understand
Mon, 11-15-2010 - 10:51am

I realize that I'm talking alcohol abuse here, but my problem involves so much sex, that this is the only place I feel comfortable talking about this.

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Registered: 05-04-2006
Mon, 11-15-2010 - 11:08am

>>He often says its my responsibility to get him hard.

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Mon, 11-15-2010 - 12:34pm

When a man's member begins to fail for the first time, especially a life-long HL, it's more than extremely stressful for him. Human nature, desiring to overcome this challenge,

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Mon, 11-15-2010 - 12:40pm

merriweathercat wrote: "I actually wish It was the way it was 6 months ago when I looked forward to Saturday mornings in bed with him.

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Registered: 09-06-2007
Fri, 11-19-2010 - 2:47pm

Merriweathercat, I think that when you said your H had been molested as a little boy that the issues you are describing seem line up now.

THe poster below your information mentioned out sex abuse victims can tend to go truly overboard with their sexuality as an attempt to be in control of it.