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Fri, 11-26-2010 - 5:48pm

Apparently I've been gone too long and missed this transition.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2003
In reply to: nalugurl
Sat, 11-27-2010 - 6:28pm

Hi Nalu,

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2005
In reply to: nalugurl
Sun, 11-28-2010 - 2:29pm

Nalugurl,

I think we grow codependent and/or are scared to leave sometimes. My advice is to get out while you can. There are plenty of men in the sea that would give their left testicle to have a HL woman like you. Now is a good time to leave before you get married and have kids...then you're "trapped" (or at least you'll feel that way). Trust me...some of us on this board know all too well...

Good-on-ya!
CC

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2010
In reply to: nalugurl
Mon, 11-29-2010 - 12:34am

Good for you....Don't marry...IMO, as hot as you are, you will get worse as you age...As LL as he is he, too, will fall down the ladder of needing a woman...A man must be kept on the edge of want in order to stay the way that we women want them...I know...I fight this too...It seems as if once they slow down, they think that this is the time in life to do this...Unfortunately, this preys on their mind and can make them age far too young...My best advice is to find a man to either satisfy you and make sure that he orally or manually takes care of you along with your toys....Good luck....

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2009
In reply to: nalugurl
Mon, 11-29-2010 - 4:09am

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: nalugurl
Mon, 11-29-2010 - 7:20am

...I think it's more basic than that...being a part of what a partner needs/wants/desires is more important than sex...it's being willing to enthusiastically particiapte in a mutually satisfying life...sex factors as an important issue as most couples value or go along with the societal norm of monogamy...I can walk with my walking group (exercising is an important, emotional based need for me)...I don't require the presence of a partner to feel satiated and fulfilled when it comes to cooking...I can interact with any number of people....(or not)...except when it comes to sex...me and my husband have promised each other that

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2010
In reply to: nalugurl
Mon, 11-29-2010 - 1:49pm

You are LL than the woman in question...Her's is high...When a woman is in this much sexual want she must be satisfied...Her love for her partner causes this craving...He should satisfy her when she needs it...I don't mean every minute of the day, but at least a couple times a week with fingering or oral sex....Exercise does not help...She needs release of the love fluid that is trapped within her....We only have full sexual intercourse maybe once a week....However, always this amount or more...But, he fingers me and we find the intimate moments needed to let the hot woman inside me loose during the other times...This can, if not kept under control, send a woman unaware of what she is doing, looking for another lover...This part of her that is insatiable must be kept under control....Take care...

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2006
In reply to: nalugurl
Mon, 11-29-2010 - 1:57pm
>>This can, if not kept under control, send a woman unaware of what she is doing, looking for another lover...This part of her that is insatiable must be kept under control....Take care...<<

Sorry, that last part is bull. No woman "unaware of what she is doing" is out there looking for another lover. A woman out there considering sex with someone besides her mate is NOT unaware, unless she's seriously mentally handicapped.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: nalugurl
Mon, 11-29-2010 - 6:00pm

...I have to admit, I have no earthly idea why you replied to me, if you meant to reply to me, or what part of my post that you replied to you disagree with...but, I do have a few "what?"'s for you...love fluid trapped???...hot woman inside???...how do you know I have a lower libido than the poster?...I have sex everyday of my life and I have wonderful orgasms 3-4 days a week (sometimes more)...I am completely satisfied...so, my libido is not even an issue with my responses...to top that off, my whole post surrounds the idea that if a low libido partner refuses to participate (enthusiastically) in their partner's sexual fulfillment they ( the LL) is selfish (in my opnion) and I feel that the selfish behavior shows itself way before sex becomes an issue...so, please, please...explain to me what you disagree with in my post that you replied to...????????>......

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: nalugurl
Mon, 11-29-2010 - 6:01pm

...I'm absolutely stumped as to older's response to me...

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: nalugurl
Mon, 11-29-2010 - 6:07pm
I think you are focusing too much on the "in reply to" heading. In the new format, I often don't hit the reply button from in the message I intend to address. I read all the new messages in the thread and then hit the reply button in the last one. But I am intending to address text from several posts ago. If the words do not seem to be addressing you, then I suggest you ignore the "in reply to" and assume that the message is meant for someone else.

I think we would all find it easier to follow threads if everyone took the time to type a couple of words indicating what topic they intend to address before they post their response. More work, but less work than hitting the "back" button and waiting for all the ads to load. Stupid new format!

When you see it coming, duck!

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