Update: Same ol' same ol'

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Update: Same ol' same ol'
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Fri, 08-24-2012 - 1:33pm

It's been a while since I posted here. It's been an extremely busy summer.

Nothing's changed since I last posted: Still married. Still no sex. Still not trying. We get along fine and hope to continue getting along until the kids are grown, when I plan to divorce, move away and find a compatible partner. I've accepted the situation and don't feel frustrated by it.

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 6:52pm

Thanks for the encouragement!

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Sat, 08-25-2012 - 6:31pm

Yes, I mean no sex at all. I guess my concern about losing it when not using it is allayed by frequent masturbation (mine).

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Fri, 08-24-2012 - 4:57pm
Good for you. My wife and I continue to have sex on a fairly regular weekly basis, and I am still frustrated by the lack of interaction. But not nearly so frustrated as when we did not have sex at all! I admire you for being able to have found a way to avoid the frustration.

When you see it coming, duck!