What to do, he's not as interested...
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|Thu, 02-06-2014 - 1:03pm|
I'm 34 & my hubby is 35. We've been together like 13 yrs & used to have sex 3-4 times/wk on average. Now its been maybe twice in the past month (its been like this for several months now). And I am so tired of having to do all of the work. It's seriously a hit to the ego, like he doesn't find me attractive anymore. I know work has been stressful and he's tired but I still feel that if you have time to watch TV before bed then you have time to make an effort sometimes. I mean, I'm not even giving subtle hints anymore its very direct but he still isn't interested. He'll complain he's tired. I get that and I try to be sensitive to it, but now I'm just frustrated! We've talked about it a few times and it usually turns into an angry discussion with me telling him that he is never interested in touching me anymore. It's to the point now where I'm just mad and refuse to make the effort if he won't. Maybe that's wrong, but I don't know how to bring this up without him being defensive. I never thought I'd have a higher sex drive since it seems like its a common theory that men want sex more than women.