What makes me want sex

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Registered: 10-10-2010
What makes me want sex
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Thu, 11-04-2010 - 8:16pm

Okay so we know there's no magic key. Well really there ARE some magic keys but they can't be easily found... because they're magic haha.

How about this.. Ladies (and gents), whether HL or LL and all other variations, what DOES make you want to have sex? What have you noticed makes your partner want sex?

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Registered: 10-10-2010
Thu, 11-04-2010 - 9:04pm

- Written Erotica

-Memory Triggers-- Most but not all from early sexual experiences. First boyfriend's cologne. The smell of

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
Thu, 11-04-2010 - 9:36pm

...sex, for the sake of sex?...that's easy...when I'm horny...

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Registered: 10-10-2010
Thu, 11-04-2010 - 9:39pm

Do you mean it's a feeling that purely comes from within, whenever it just does, or are there certain circumstances

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Registered: 02-03-2009
Thu, 11-04-2010 - 9:53pm

...I don't know, I think that as soon as I started applying analysis to it...to try to figure it out...the feeling would go away...so, I roll with it...

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Registered: 10-10-2010
Thu, 11-04-2010 - 9:57pm

Another thing that I guess you could say makes me want sex is just where I am in my cycle. Before and unfortunately during the period is highest. Also leading up to ovulation, maybe week 2, seems higher.

I read something recently that said the best time for sex is the morning of day 13 of her cycle. That would be the day before ovulation and morning, because men's testosterone is highest in the morning.

Also, now that we usually do it at bedtime, I expect it at bedtime and if it doesn't happen I am kind of put out. Although habit sounds like such an unexciting word I wonder if it would also apply to "LLs" if it just becomes part of their expected schedule. Oh my that did not sound very inspiring, lol.

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Registered: 11-04-2010
Thu, 11-04-2010 - 11:05pm

What makes me want sex?

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Thu, 11-04-2010 - 11:25pm

What makes me want to have sex? Good question.

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Registered: 10-10-2010
Fri, 11-05-2010 - 2:41am

Latin and chemistry homework? LOL, never would have guessed that one. Or maybe I would,

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Fri, 11-05-2010 - 2:45am

Anticipating new sexual experiences.

That one for me too Piper's Girl, definitely. In fact I think we get more out of the anticipation sometimes than the actual event or whatever it is we're talking about trying.

Also, yes and yes to thinking about sex and having sex both causing wanting more sex. In fact I have this annoying habit of strongly wanting round two about a half hour to an

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Fri, 11-05-2010 - 5:18am

From an HL guy:

  • Conscious? - check
  • Breathing? - check
  • Ready to go? - yes indeedy.

Somewhat flippant of course, but a serious point is that it doesn't take anything to get me randy because that's woven into my experience.

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