When you have sex, how is it usually initiated?

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When you have sex, how is it usually initiated?
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Wed, 11-23-2011 - 11:09am

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"When you do end up having sex, how exactly is it usually initiated?"


It almost always occurs in the bedroom with me messaging her back, if I'm lucky, she'll turn over and start kissing me and we get into short foreplay and then sex.

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I used to usually be the one to initiate, but now it's about 50/50. It usually starts with tongue kissing. Like one of us will start to gauge the other's response. When I initiate there is also a handjob involved to start off with as well. I'm pretty happy with the way things have been. I would have wanted more in the past, but I'm happy with how it is now.
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Yes, it is sad, and more so because it was not always this way.

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And now for the question you forgot: "What situations occur that any sane person would assume their spouse might have some interest in sex but is definitely the opposite?"

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Yeah, it's truly vexxing but then again, DW is completely predictable in these instances. Just so long as I work from the functioning brain I know when there's a chance and when there's none. Sometimes.

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Thank you for your questions (and the responses), I've found them interesting to explore.

"When you do end up having sex, how exactly is it usually initiated?"

These days, we have a semi-schedule which is basically once in the morning midweek, and once at the weekend lie-in.

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