woman who's men stop having sex with them

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Registered: 12-25-2011
woman who's men stop having sex with them
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Sun, 12-25-2011 - 5:49pm
I have good friends who's men stopped having sex with them. 9 years, 7 years, 5 years and 3 years. In all cases women look good. Not bad girls. And they want sex. Can anyone out there tell me if you are in the same boat? And yes i have read the "The sex starved wife" by Michelle Davis!
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Registered: 06-11-2001
Sun, 12-25-2011 - 10:23pm

Yep, I'm there. It's been 2+ years for me. Started dwindling after a year. There were hints when we were dating but I stupidly ignored them because he talked a good game. It was all talk. When we got married I expected a little more intimacy and tried to negotiate that. He just couldn't handle it. He says he wants sex, just not willing to actually speak to me or show affection in order to have it. I can't have sex with a stranger and thats what we are.

Sadly, this holiday was horrendous and I think I'm asking for a separation soon.

Hopefully I'll be able to find a partner that will have similar intimacy and sexual needs and will be willing to work out difficulties. Sex isn't everything but lack of closeness is for me.

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Registered: 12-25-2011
Mon, 12-26-2011 - 7:48am
MYHAPPY, question. Is your husband a clean freek? Mean to kids? Never happy?
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Registered: 10-31-2009
Mon, 12-26-2011 - 12:33pm
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Registered: 12-25-2011
Mon, 12-26-2011 - 3:01pm
Tranquility. My sister told me last year her hubby stopped the day she got married. Then after talking to woman friends there husbands stopped. 9 years 7 years and 3 years. My sister went 5 years one time.. i have trouble understaning how this goes on. MICHELLE DAVIS said in her book 25 to 30% of men do this. Top to reason are girl friend or gay... i thought a message board like this would help them if other woman posted, then i could show them. As for me I love sex and would not and could not stop having sex with the woman I love.