What activities are allowed while in a relationship?

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Registered: 02-06-2007
What activities are allowed while in a relationship?
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Mon, 01-31-2011 - 1:22pm

What activities do you feel should and should not be allowed by both partners while in committed relationship with you.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007

Picked OK on all

Visiting Strip clubs

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-06-2007

I forgot to add something about strip clubs.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007

Tulips, your guy has friends who send close-up photos of themselves?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-06-2007

>> I often wondered if it's really uncommon. Are you going to try it?

My wife and I have lots of explicit photos and videos of each other, but we've never shared any with anyone.

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Registered: 12-05-2006

Bunch'a Loonies!!

Let me share and after, I think you'll find your man and his friends much more sane.

My oldest daughter's ex-bf, who she and I are both still good friends with, has two buddies that, between the three of them, have been swapping self-feces pics for over 6 years. The one time I asked him about it, they had 16 competitive categories and each of them held the title in at least a

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007

That's terrific!

I was never so aware of poo-poos until I lived with a guy!

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Registered: 12-05-2006

My mother was over inquisitive about my bathroom functions so by the time I was 5 - I was completely fed up with it and demanded absolute privacy in that area.

When I left my wife and figured out my new ground rules, I decided to love EVERYTHING about my SO other than what was on my list of deal breakers. Well, guess what I forgot to list? That's right... discussions about "pooing."

So, after a spotless 43 year record of refusing to discuss

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-06-2007

Out of seven voters so far, there has only been a single vote for any activity (Viewing erotic photos or videos of your partner is NOT okay).

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-21-2004

I forgot to add something about strip clubs.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007
  • Going to strip clubs - Disco Disco Good Good
  • Online one-on-one chat - depends on who it is & how involved I am
  • Phone chat lines / Phone sex (900 paid) - no, too expensive ... although I've always wondered what it's like
  • Naughty/flirtatious text messaging with someone of the opposite sex - depends on who it is & how involved I am
  • Sharing nude photos with someone other than your SO via phone or internet - depends on who it is & how involved I am
  • Any communication with someone met via hookup website - probably not OK

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha

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