Who should submit first?

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Who should submit first?
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Mon, 01-03-2011 - 4:54pm

I'd actually like to see this discussion.

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 12:20pm

To me it seems a question of compatibility. Pick the man you believe in & then it won't be a hardship to follow. Or be someone who's worth following, & then a woman will.

But that would be too easy & not nearly enough to talk about. So let's flog this horse!

I tend to agree.

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 12:35pm

LOL, I just came to see if anyone said anything, I saw you did, & got all excited

But you just agreed. How can you be so reasonable.

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 3:40pm

<< To me it seems a question of compatibility. Pick the man you believe in & then it won't be a hardship to follow. >>

Same goes for a job only we don't hear the

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 5:41pm

SUBMIT (thought you liked hard,

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 5:57pm

Well, all analogies fall short on some level. Oh, and maybe look for a better job. My company (and immediate supervisor) look out for my interests very well.

My point is that we all subordinate ourselves to multiple systems at all times... but

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 6:59pm

I know this wasn't you but in a different thread that peaches and I completely derailed, I tied some men's desire toward high-end dominance (even abusive) porn to their emasculation under Western culture. However, I was not saying this possible response was just or right, just that it may be the case.

BTW, I finally watched a good bit of free, online porn just to (hopefully) sound more educated here and for the life of me, didn't run into this demeaning form of porn against women but I didn't go searching for it either. If you look on sites like Youporn or Xtube and go the the highest rated or most views, they're are almost impossible to find.

Is it a fringe fetish that some here might be guilty of majoring on the minors? Not you BTW :)

Ha, just found this - check out herway.com and let the page load. I'm wondering what 30 yr old, tall, athletic, doctor, blonde hair, blue eyed, guy-next-door, who enjoys traveling and hiking is gonna even sign up on any dating site... much less this one.

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 10:36am

Ha, just found this - check out herway.com and let the page load. I'm wondering what 30 yr old, tall, athletic, doctor, blonde hair, blue eyed, guy-next-door, who enjoys traveling and hiking is gonna even sign up on any dating site... much less this one.

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 12:40pm

Good leadership will

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 1:26pm

Sounds good on paper.

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 2:55pm

You mean you take the lead with finances?

One other thing I left off the list of a good leader is delegation. Assuming the overall workload is equitable, it's silly not to defer duties when the

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