My husband likes to watch lesbian movies

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Registered: 01-23-2013
My husband likes to watch lesbian movies
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Tue, 02-18-2014 - 12:06pm

My husband recently started watching lesbian movies late at night after I have gone to bed. I never gave it much thought until a couple of my friends said I should be worried. I am not sure what I should be worried about if anything. Opinions?

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 02-18-2014 - 9:07pm

I don't know what your friends think you should be worried about either--lesbian movies are a turn on to a lot of men--they are actually made for men, not lesbians.  If you look at the women in there, they are always very feminine--not like typical lesbians.  

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Wed, 02-19-2014 - 9:46am

Hahahahaha you mean there are men who don't??

It's your husband and every other man on this planet.....

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Registered: 02-19-2014
Wed, 02-19-2014 - 9:42pm

I think it's important for women to enjoy themselves. If they are going to have sex, I hope they really enjoy it.

When I was young I complained to a friend that porn didn't show nearly enough fun for the girls. I said sure, the guys in the movies got off, but the girls, while they did a good job of acting, where played with way too little to by any stretch of the imagination be having any fun. He laughed at me and told me if I wanted to see the women being played with in a porn flick I had to watch lesbian movies.

There's no "money shot" of a guy cumming in lesbian flicks. All the attention is on the stimulation being given to the gals. The money shot, if you will, is the portrayal of a supposed female orgasm. And the movies often have a lot of long foreplay scenes, which makes it possible to suspend my disbelief, and think the characters in the movie might at least really be able to really enjoy what they're doing a lot. So then I can enjoy the women and their portrayal of sex in the movie.

The sex in normal hetero porn? I just can't see how those gals could be actually enjoying it, so it doesn't turn me on.

Because what matters to me is how much the women are enjoying the sex.