2nd marriage...husband disagreeable about my grandchildren

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2nd marriage...husband disagreeable about my grandchildren
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Tue, 07-24-2012 - 1:33pm

This is my second marriage for both my husband and myself, we each have 2 daughters, all out of the house. My daughters have kids of their own now. I long to spend more time with my grandkids but my husband has issues with them coming over and "disturbing" his tranquility.  Spending more time with my grandkids is something I want to do more and there is always an arguement about it. I can eventually get my way, but after a lot of grief. I don't want to have to deal with this every time. It is really putting a strain on me. Love my husband lots, we get along well other than this particular issue. His 2 daughters do not have their own children yet, and I really try to treat his 2 daughters as my own. Any advice out there?