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| Tue, 11-08-2005 - 9:20am |
My DH and I have been together for a little over 4 years and been married for a little over one year.
| Tue, 11-08-2005 - 9:20am |
My DH and I have been together for a little over 4 years and been married for a little over one year.
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Aisha,
I'm with you there. When I read that, I too was floored. I am one who will talk with a select few (though I am very careful about who) but I would NEVER talk about anything like that. I think it's inappropriate.
Jen
Edited 11/10/2005 10:15 am ET by imasillynut
Edited 11/10/2005 10:42 am ET by bizzzurk
I don't agree that your marriage would necessarily have been saved if your wife had have discussed issues with her friends. We see many posters who have a fixed idea and no amount of persuasion by others will change their minds. If she had firm beliefs about the way a marriage should be, do you think she would change her mind simply if her friends didn't agree? Do you think that her beliefs were so fickle?
Take porn use for example. Many women accept mild use by their partners. Meanwhile, many other women cannot accept it at all. Neither's point of view is wrong and neither will be swayed simply by a friend's point of view.
I don't know any strong woman who would change her beliefs simply because her friends may not agree with her.
Edited 11/12/2005 6:08 am ET by iv_aisha2004
Bizzzurk - talking about problems
~ cl-2nd_life"You can't control the length of your life,
but you can control the width and depth."
~ Author unknown

my signature exchange partner:"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
Bizzzurk - leave vs. stay
~ cl-2nd_life"You can't control the length of your life,
but you can control the width and depth."
~ Author unknown

my signature exchange partner:Edited 11/13/2005 1:26 am ET by cl-2nd_life
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
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