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| Sun, 08-27-2006 - 10:56am |
> well, i guess i had said something to him about leaving me is b/c i know for a fact he ws head over heels in love with her back in the day and still had feelings for her.probally b/c she was his > first love.and a little has to do with some insecurites with me.i feel like sometimes im not good enough.i feel like i have lost that person who i use to be and i have way of getting her back.
> with his "silent treatments" they always get to me.i dont know why..i have always been like this even before him.and the reson i know he was upset with me is b/c i asked.he said that we have money > problems and i shouldnt be spending money like that.but what i dont understand is that he can go spend money left and righ and i have no say so. and i know you say i should try to talk to him about > it but sometimes he is very hard headed and doesnt like to talk.it causes more of a problem then anything.once in a while i'll get lucky and he'll talk to me.in some ways i feel like he resents me > for not having a real job(i babysit and stay @ home all day)i just dont know.i really love him and want this time around to work.there is alot of obstacles that i have to overcome.my parents have > even noticed that im in some kind of rut over this stuff.today he wasnt actually that bad.he has started to talk to me and stuff.so i hope all is well with him.but i apprecitate your concern.hope to > hear back from you..thanks.
> ~emma
> with his "silent treatments" they always get to me.i dont know why..i have always been like this even before him.and the reson i know he was upset with me is b/c i asked.he said that we have money > problems and i shouldnt be spending money like that.but what i dont understand is that he can go spend money left and righ and i have no say so. and i know you say i should try to talk to him about > it but sometimes he is very hard headed and doesnt like to talk.it causes more of a problem then anything.once in a while i'll get lucky and he'll talk to me.in some ways i feel like he resents me > for not having a real job(i babysit and stay @ home all day)i just dont know.i really love him and want this time around to work.there is alot of obstacles that i have to overcome.my parents have > even noticed that im in some kind of rut over this stuff.today he wasnt actually that bad.he has started to talk to me and stuff.so i hope all is well with him.but i apprecitate your concern.hope to > hear back from you..thanks.
> ~emma
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| Wed, 08-30-2006 - 8:39am |
He may have some resentment if he works more because he feels it's 'his' money when it may or may not be. What did you agreeon, that you work or not? Did you ever discuss before this that if you weren't working as much for whatever reason you both agreed upon that the money is still both of yours together? Or Was it that he always saw it as his because makes more, works more, whatever reason?
