am i doing the right thing
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am i doing the right thing
| Tue, 06-20-2006 - 12:10pm |
i met a guy one evening who wanted to give me a lift to my destination but upon my refusal, he took my cell number and called me later that night. He asked that we have a date the following day after work and I did. He's a gentleman and caring ( I gathered from his manners)and single with a child. He wants to have a serious relationship with me (at the moment I dont know whether it will lead to marriage) but I have a big problem..... He is not good looking at all. I dont know how I can introduce him to family or friends because am shy that they'll definately laugh at me. so I made an excuse of telling him I have a relationship already which is almost 3years. Am I doing the right thing?

He wants to have a serious relationship after only one date?
I agree that suggesting he's interested in having a serious relationship with you is a huge red flag to a bad situation. But, I think there's more here that indicates concern:
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"